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Talking about suicide.
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Statements about hopelessness,
helplessness, or worthlessness.
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Preoccupation with death.
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Suddenly happier, calmer.
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Loss of interest in things one
cares about.
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Visiting or calling people one
cares about.
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Making arrangements; setting one's
affairs in order.
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Giving things away.
A suicidal person urgently needs
to see a doctor or psychiatrist.
Someone You Know is Suicidal
The Journal of the American Medical Association has reported that 95% of
all suicides occur at the peak of a depressive episode. Education,
recognition and treatment are the keys to suicide prevention.
KNOW WHAT TO WATCH FOR
KNOW WHAT TO DO
Stigma associated with depressive illnesses can prevent people from
getting help. Your willingness to talk about depression and suicide with a
friend, family member, or co-worker can be the first step in getting help
and preventing suicide.
If you see the warning signs of suicide…
Begin a dialogue by asking questions.
Suicidal thoughts are common with depressive illnesses and your willingness
to talk about it in a nonjudgmental way can be the push a person needs to
get help. Questions to ask:
“Do you ever feel so badly that you think of suicide?”
“Do you have a plan?”
“Do you know when you would do it (today, next week)?"
“Do you have access to what you would use?”
Asking these questions will allow you to determine if your friend is
in immediate danger, and get help if needed. A suicidal person should see
a doctor or psychiatrist immediately. Calling 911 or going to a hospital
emergency room are valid options. Always take thoughts of or plans for
suicide seriously.
Never keep a plan for suicide a secret.
Don’t worry about endangering a friendship if you truly feel a life is in
danger. It's better to regret something you did, than something you didn't
do to help a friend.
Don't try to minimize problems or shame a
person into changing her mind. Your opinion of a person's
situation is irrelevant. Trying to convince a person it's not that bad, or
that she has everything to live for will only increase her feelings of guilt
and hopelessness. Reassure her help is available, that depression is
treatable, and that suicidal feelings are temporary.
If you feel the person isn't in immediate
danger, acknowledge the pain as legitimate and offer to work together to get
help. Make sure you follow through. This is one instance where
you must be tenacious in your follow-up. Help find a doctor or a mental
health professional, participate in making the first phone call, or go along
to the first appointment. If you're in a position to help, don't assume that
your persistence is unwanted or intrusive. Risking your feelings to help
save a life is a risk worth taking.
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